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Journal Entry 1 by loopy1 from Herne Bay, Kent United Kingdom on Saturday, August 21, 2004
This is the story of how Alice was raped as an eighteen year old, and the effect it had on her life. This book has a stain on the outside of one corner due to hot chocolate being spilled, but is otherwise fine, and will be heading out on an international bookray as soon as I've finished reading it.
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Journal Entry 2 by loopy1 from Herne Bay, Kent United Kingdom on Sunday, August 22, 2004
Collecting names for an international bookray: Sandyundead UK (UK pref) Spiderchic UK Anywhere Margih Finland (Europe pref) candy80 Finland Bookmaniac70 Bulgaria, anywhere Awakeagain US (US/Can pref) Saoirse in Texas, USA Scram33 US anywhere MazieNH New Hampshire, US Boomda181 Canada tammichi Hawaii Kiwiwonder Auckland, NZ - anywhere jaynereader Future names will be added at the bottom of the list. Please be prepared to post anywhere!
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Journal Entry 3 by loopy1 from Herne Bay, Kent United Kingdom on Thursday, September 02, 2004
I found this book rather difficult to read, because of the subject matter. I was disappointed that Alice didn't get much support from her parents. A tale of how someone copes with an event that does its best to screw up her life. The book will be heading out on its ray very soon.
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Journal Entry 4 by sandyundead from Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear United Kingdom on Tuesday, September 07, 2004
Thanks Loopy - I will read this once I have finished 1610: A Sundial in a Grave.
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Journal Entry 5 by sandyundead from Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear United Kingdom on Saturday, September 11, 2004
This is a very scary account of how a few hours can change a life forever. It brought me to tears a few times. It is the first account like this that I have ever read and I really appreciate the fact that Alice Sebold has published it. I don't know what else I can say, as I don't know how to put it in to words, except to say that you much read this book. Thanks Loopy for sending it out.
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Journal Entry 6 by sandyundead from Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear United Kingdom on Thursday, September 23, 2004
This will be posted to spiderchic at some point in the next week - as soon as I can get to a Post Office!
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Journal Entry 7 by sandyundead from Newcastle upon Tyne, Tyne and Wear United Kingdom on Friday, September 24, 2004
I have posted this on to spiderchic today.
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Journal Entry 8 by spiderchic from Droylsden, Greater Manchester United Kingdom on Monday, September 27, 2004
Received this in the post today. Have just finished a book so can start this one right away - thanks.
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Journal Entry 9 by spiderchic from Droylsden, Greater Manchester United Kingdom on Friday, October 01, 2004
Oh my God! I finished this last night, I couldn't put it down. An incredible account and very moving. Thank you so much for sharing Loopy1.
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Journal Entry 10 by spiderchic from Droylsden, Greater Manchester United Kingdom on Friday, October 01, 2004
Sent out today 1.10.04
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Journal Entry 11 by Margih from Tampere, Pirkanmaa Finland on Thursday, October 07, 2004
Received it today, thanks spiderchic. And thank you loopy1 for sharing this book. Must wait maybe one week in the TBR pile.
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Journal Entry 12 by Margih from Tampere, Pirkanmaa Finland on Wednesday, October 27, 2004
It really didn´t take many days to read this book, it was very hard to put it down. Lucky is very touching story and it makes you think how your life can change in one short moment. I haven´t read Sebold´s other books but I will... and it´ll be interesting to read them when you know this story of the author. I just took the book to post office, so Candy80 will receive it this week.
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Journal Entry 13 by CandyDarling from Helsinki, Uusimaa Finland on Friday, October 29, 2004
The book is with me now. I have two bookring books that I need to finish before starting this one, but I'll try to be quick!
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Journal Entry 14 by CandyDarling from Helsinki, Uusimaa Finland on Friday, November 19, 2004

This was a very good but disturbing read. I'm really glad Alice Sebold decided to share her story with us. She says repeatedly in the book that the rape made her feel alienated from everybody else, and I can see what she means. Even after reading the book I still don't understand completely. I really don't know how it feels like to be raped. When she described how the rapist put his penis in her mouth, I kept thinking that I would have bitten it off. But would I really have had the guts to do that in a real situation? The book made me angry too. Not at the rapist, as one would think, but at our society. I quote from the book, page 176. "By this time I knew what the superficials were and knew they stood in my favor. I was a virgin. He was a stranger. It had happened outside. It was night. I wore loose clothes and could not be proven to have behaved provocatively. There were no drugs or alcohol in my system. I had no former involvement with the police of any kind, not even a traffic ticket. He was black and I was white. There was an obvious physical struggle. I had been injured internally - stitches had to be taken. I was young and and a student at a private university that brought revenue to the city. He had a record and had done time." The above passage made me sick. Why do any of those things matter? A rape is a rape even if the victim is on drugs and is dressed provocatively. And why is it worse to rape a university student than lets say a waitress? I absolutely hate the prejudices in our society. I think the book is very well written. Alice Sebold tells us about her life in between accounts of the progression of her trial. The courtroom passages are exhausting for the reader, as they must have been for her. There's also humor, and Sebold herself and her family all feel very real. I've never read a book where the good and bad sides of a person blend so seamlessly together. I have to quote one more thing, this is from page 73. "I sat on the blue silk couch, my father's prized posession, from which all children and dogs were banned. (For Christmas one year I had coaxed a bassett onto the light blue silk using a biscuit. I then snapped photos of her chowing down and had them framed, presenting them to my father as a gift.)"
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Journal Entry 15 by CandyDarling from Helsinki, Uusimaa Finland on Monday, November 22, 2004
I sent the book to Bookmaniac70 today.
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Journal Entry 16 by bookmaniac70 from София / Sofia, Sofiya Bulgaria on Tuesday, November 30, 2004
Received today.I`m going to pick it for reading immediately.Thank for sending it!
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Journal Entry 17 by bookmaniac70 from София / Sofia, Sofiya Bulgaria on Tuesday, December 07, 2004
I`m now close to the end.I appreciate the moral courage needed to write such a book.At the same time,it must have had a healing effect on the writer. One of the most painful aspects of what happened to Alice was,IMO,her alienation from society,the impossibility to speak about what have befallen her.The rape took her out of the average "normal" girls and put a sign on her that she was different. I was feeling at times very angry with her parents,especially her mother,for not being strong and open enough to support her in the first months.Rather ridicilous was the remark of her sister"You are coping so well with it,and I just don`t know how to think about it!'.It was as if she had to calm and support her family to overcome her rape,instead of being cared for by them. I think she uses this theme about not speaking in the family in "The Lovely Bones" where we see how the family of the raped girl could not face talking and realising the fact of the loss. Particulary difficult for reading were the pages in the courtroom.I never thought that testifying could be so difficult and painful.I was mad for the defendant of the rapist who tried to confuse Alice and mislead her. I shall journal once again when I finish.
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Journal Entry 18 by bookmaniac70 from София / Sofia, Sofiya Bulgaria on Tuesday, December 07, 2004
Finished reading.For me the pages after the trial went a bit out of focus.In fact,I couldn`t understand much of Alice`s life after the convinction of the rapist. I couldn`t fix what exactly contributed to her healing at last.She mentions briefly about reading a book but still I couldn`t get the whole image of her healing. However,I think it would be unfair to judge the book as an usual piece of literature. The rape of Alice`s friend Lila came unexpected for me.I think it is quite probable that the rape was a kind of revenge to Alice, it is also possible that she was the main target. I tried to figure out why Lila cut off Alice after the rape.I guess that first of all,Lila blamed Alice for what happened,as if rape was contagious and living with Alice brought a tragedy to Lila,too.When Alice was the victim,Lila could be the sensible and caring friend and maintain her own "purity" at the same time but once Lila became a victim herself,she felt as if she did drop low,so low as did Alice. This and many other stories in the book place an interesting topic about how a victim can become guilty in the eyes of the people for being a victim.I can only guess that in this case(a rape) things have much to do with sex,even if it is forced and unwilling....inside the puritanic minds of many people the victim is still guilty for having an illegal sex....even if she couldn`t do anything about it.... Reading "Lucky" contributed to my previous reading of "The Lovely Bones". Those two are not necessary read together; they may be read perfectly well one without another,and for me "The Lovely Bones" is better as literature and fiction but it was enlightening to read that one,too,for its honest approach and the bravery and courage of the writer. I already PMed the next person in the list.
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Journal Entry 19 by bookmaniac70 at by mail in To the next participant, A Bookring -- Controlled Releases on Monday, December 13, 2004
Released on Monday, December 13, 2004 at about 5:00:00 AM BX time (GMT-06:00) Central Time (US & Canada) at by mail in To the next participant, A Bookring Controlled Releases. RELEASE NOTES: Sent to awakeagain.
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Journal Entry 20 by awakeagain from Port Murray, New Jersey USA on Tuesday, December 28, 2004
Rec'd this one in the mail today. Unusually for me, I'm reading two books at once (one kind of long-winded, the other light) but as soon as I'm done, this one comes next!
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Journal Entry 21 by awakeagain from Port Murray, New Jersey USA on Wednesday, December 29, 2004
One mark of a writer is, I think, that everything, absolutely everything, has the potential to become a story (or a song, a poem, I'm not just talking about narrative writers). Alice Sebold writes about the story of her rape partly as catharsis and partly because she IS a writer and writing is what she does. The book opens with the step-by-step, graphic account of her rape as an 18-year-old college freshman. I found myself thinking that this was too depressing, that perhaps I wouldn't go on. But I continuing reading and I'm glad I did. Her story is, in some ways, a universal one of how one triumphs over personal disaster. It's a bit reminiscent of the expression "those who do not heed history are doomed to repeat it over and over again". Unlike many rape victims, Alice pursues her case. Condensed in a short book like this, it's not clear how long and discouraging it can be pursue justice but I could read between the lines. Her triumph is not really a triumph; what happened changed her life, changed her family and changed her personal history forever. But rather than making it the entire focus of her life, she learned to go on. And writing this book was part of that learning process. Will be on it's travels to Saoirse within a few days.
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Journal Entry 22 by awakeagain from Port Murray, New Jersey USA on Tuesday, January 04, 2005
mailed to Saoirse 1/4/05
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Journal Entry 23 by saoirse from Farmers Branch, Texas USA on Sunday, January 16, 2005
Got it, thanks, and I will be starting it right away. Looks to be a quick read so I will PM the next person and get all set to send it on.
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Journal Entry 24 by boomda181 on Sunday, February 06, 2005
I received the book in the mail and I am beginning it today. Will post more soon! I finished this book in a day, which I have not done in a very long time. I was mesmerized by the author's strength to overcome such a tragedy. Her courage inspires me. I will send this off to the next participant.
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Journal Entry 25 by Tammychi on Thursday, March 24, 2005

Lucky has arrived in Hawaii and I have already started reading. I found myself unable to put this book down, fascinated with Sebold's vivid account of her rape and healing process. I was flooded by memories of my own rape and the horrible turmoil that followed soon after. Alice is an amazingly strong woman. I wish I had had half the courage she showed during this horrible period. I was much too terrified to file charges. My rapist eventually joined the U.S. Army and moved away. Friday, March 25, 2005 Mailed to KiwiWonder in Australia.
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Journal Entry 26 by KiwiWonder from Auckland, Auckland Province New Zealand on Monday, April 04, 2005
Ooops... a slightly late journal entry here. Book arrived the middle of last week and I've been carrying it around in my bookbag and completely forgot to journal! I haven't started it yet, but it's next on my TBR list :)
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Journal Entry 27 by KiwiWonder from Auckland, Auckland Province New Zealand on Sunday, April 10, 2005
Started reading this weekend. I'm enjoying the book, but like many before me, am finding it a bit heavy going. Will update more later :-)
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Journal Entry 28 by KiwiWonder from Auckland, Auckland Province New Zealand on Thursday, April 14, 2005
Lucky is a compelling read, and although at times I wasn't sure I 'wanted' to continue reading it, Alice and her life had entered my brain and heart by that time and I had to finish it. That said, I found it really easy to put down at times, and at others it was almost plodding. The description of the trial was one of the fastest-moving parts of the book for me though, so at times I was definitely riveted. Also at times I found myself well and truly pissed off at the way she, and women in general, were treated. Why it matters what a rape victim is wearing. Why it matters if a rape victim is a virgin, etc. I knew these things beforehand, but reading her story just brought them up again. The style of this book is a lot like life in general -- there are ups and downs, fast parts and slow parts, heartbreak and triumph. It reads rather like a fiction novel except, of course, it isn't. I'm grateful to Alice Sebold for sharing her story, and thankful that I've had a chance to read it. In the post today to jaynereader.
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Journal Entry 29 by jaynereader from Sheffield, South Yorkshire United Kingdom on Saturday, April 30, 2005
Thanks loopy1 and kiwiwonder for sending this book on to me. I'm really looking forward to it. It's next on my list after my current (short) read.
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Journal Entry 30 by jaynereader from Sheffield, South Yorkshire United Kingdom on Tuesday, May 03, 2005
I'm still reading the book but thought I would look for some new readers to continue the ray. Here's who we have: tiggsybabes (UK, international) loribee (UK, UK/Europe pref) sunlightbub (UK) brewster13 (Canada, US/Canada pref) lauraloo29 (Canada, US pref) sqdancer (Canada, international) MissTerry (KL, Malaysia, international) Alectoness (New Zealand, international) amberC (Australia, no international) EnchantedWoods (Australia, international) sydney2259 (Australia, golden spike) I'll try to fit in any new members joining from now on according to their postal preferences. Thanks for joining and keeping this ray going!
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Journal Entry 31 by jaynereader from Sheffield, South Yorkshire United Kingdom on Thursday, May 05, 2005
This is a very powerful read about a brutal rape and, especially, the after effects that last years and years. Alice Sebold tells her story without self-pity, she's a true survivor. thanks all for sharing this book. off to tiggsybabes tomorrow to keep the ray going
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Journal Entry 32 by tiggsybabes from Pontefract, West Yorkshire United Kingdom on Wednesday, May 11, 2005
Rec'd in the mail yesterday, but I have 3 rings / rays to read first, so please bear with me :)
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Journal Entry 33 by tiggsybabes from Pontefract, West Yorkshire United Kingdom on Tuesday, July 19, 2005
I took this with me on our weekend in Centreparcs & finished it off. I was interested in reading this as I lost my virginity through being raped. It happened a long, long time ago, so I don't have any bad feelings any more, but it was very good to read about how someone else felt & how she was far more active in her recovery than I was. Good for her. WIll PM loribee for her address & apologies for having this sat on my desk for a few weeks.
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Journal Entry 34 by tiggsybabes at by mail in Mailed to another BC member, a fellow bookcrosser -- Controlled Releases on Monday, August 29, 2005
Released 6 yrs ago (8/30/2005 UTC) at by mail in Mailed to another BC member, a fellow bookcrosser -- Controlled Releases WILD RELEASE NOTES:
RELEASE NOTES: Will be posted to Loribee finally *smacks wrist* Enjoy :)
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Journal Entry 35 by loribee from Birmingham, West Midlands United Kingdom on Thursday, September 08, 2005
Received with thanks - yummy chocs too!
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Journal Entry 36 by loribee from Birmingham, West Midlands United Kingdom on Monday, September 19, 2005
Ready to move on when I have an address from sunlightbub. What an honest and painful (in both the writing and the reading) account. I am very glad to have had the opportunity of reading this book.
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Journal Entry 37 by loribee from Birmingham, West Midlands United Kingdom on Monday, September 26, 2005
On its way to sunlightbub.
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Journal Entry 38 by sunlightbub from Wallasey, Merseyside United Kingdom on Wednesday, September 28, 2005
Another bookring! Thanks for offering and sending on. I'll journal again when I've read it xx
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Journal Entry 39 by sunlightbub from Wallasey, Merseyside United Kingdom on Tuesday, October 25, 2005
Just finished this book. I also read The Lovely Bones for the first time recently, and have found both books to be very moving. Sebold's honest account of her experience of her rape and the subsequent trial and also of her relationships with family and friends made me feel priviledged to read this book. Thanks so much for passing it on. I've got Brewsters address and It's going off to Cananda in the morning.
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Journal Entry 40 by brewster13 from Calgary, Alberta Canada on Tuesday, November 08, 2005
Received this in the mail on Monday (yesterday). I started reading on the bus this morning and am already caught up in the story - can hardly wait to get back to reading it!
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Journal Entry 41 by lauraloo29 from Edmonton, Alberta Canada on Friday, December 16, 2005
Arrived today. Wow this book has been doing some travelling! I have a few books before this one. One of them being an inter-library loan. I will keep it moving though. No worries. And sqdancer is a hand deliver. :)
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Journal Entry 42 by lauraloo29 from Edmonton, Alberta Canada on Wednesday, December 28, 2005
I'm frustrated. I wanted to read this book. I read The Lovely Bones and liked the writing style. Perhaps this book came at the wrong time of year. I knew what it was a book about rape. I'm okay to read about that. For some reason I never realized it was about the author when I read things about the book. The parts that I have read make me think. About how we treat rape, as a society and the victim. Interesting. I have another ring sitting here calling my name, so I'm going to let this book go. I will deliver it to sqdancer on Saturday. She's a 20 minute drive from my house. :) Thank you for giving me the opportunity to read the book.
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Journal Entry 43 by sqdancer on Saturday, December 31, 2005
Found in my mailbox. Thanks lauraloo29! The book is getting a bit *road weary* after all its travels, but it seems game to keep on going! :)
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Journal Entry 44 by sqdancer on Saturday, January 28, 2006
I don't have much to add the existing journal entries. I do hope that our attitide, as a society, toward rape victims has improved; but I am horribly afraid that it hasn't. Mailed this afternoon via Air Mail.
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Journal Entry 45 by MissTerry from London , Greater London United Kingdom on Wednesday, February 08, 2006
Arrived yesterday. Will start as soon as I have finished my current book.
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Journal Entry 46 by MissTerry from London , Greater London United Kingdom on Monday, February 20, 2006
I finished this over the weekend. I agree with many of the statements made by previous journallers. It is a very moving account of something that has left an indelible mark on the author. Will PM Alectoness to move this on. Alectoness has asked to be skipped, so I will now PM AmberC. 22/02 - Posted to AmberC today.
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Journal Entry 47 by amberC from Darwin, Northern Territory Australia on Tuesday, May 09, 2006
Received today. A nice surprise after my first day back at work for 4 weeks. The back couple of pages are starting to split away from the spine at the bottom.
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Journal Entry 48 by amberC from Darwin, Northern Territory Australia on Wednesday, June 14, 2006
A very disturbing, difficult book to read. posting to enchantedwoods tomorrow
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