Funny in Farsi : A Memoir of Growing Up Iranian in America
49 journalers for this copy...
I've got something in mind for this book.
BTW- i stuck a little something into tha package i sent you today. not as exciting as a book, but hey :) synchronistic!
i was easily able to spot one of my relatives in there in the guise of kazem...my uncle bud. really funny. i think i'll sneak this over to kristamd in the spirit of happy suprises :)
mlbish, Illinois (read and released)
alarob, Alabama (read and relased)
EMA375, California (read and released)
newk, Australia (read and released)
katayoun, Iran (read and released)
Mymlan, Finland (read and released)
Candy80, Finland (read and released)
quizgirl, UK (read and released)
bookczuk, South Carolina (read and released)
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JDT, California (read and released)
PokPok, California (read and released)
rhythmbiscuit, Colorado (read and released)
airyaa, Iran (read and released)
Soongsis2, Singapore (read and released)
mrsordonez, Missouri (read and released)
SqueakyChu, Maryland (read and released)
lilysmom, Washington (read and released)
Lobodyke, Kentucky (read and released)
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gussy916, India (read and released)
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Hollydolly, Canada (read and released)
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IslayGirl, UK (read and released)
Hedieh, Iran (read and released)
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martaenmichiel, Netherlands (has possession)
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Bookray on the road! 107,893 miles traveled to date (12/11/08). New participants welcome, but will be added to the end of the list and must be willing to ship anywhere.
Thank you, KristaMD for sharing this poignant, happy family book with us. I enjoyed it very much!
Will forward to Alarob upon receipt of his address.
Right now my favorite chapters (these are not plot spoilers) are the ones about wee Firoozeh getting lost at Disneyland and about abetting her father's jambon-eating adventures back in Abadan.
And looko I get to pass it on the the gal herself next. Hiya K.
I have another ring book about half done and should get this finished easily within two weeks. All things going well.
Thanks to those who have gone before me. I think it is important that these cross cultural experiences take place (ie both like in the book AND in BXing) and that they are documented (ie again as in both the book and BXing).
I have a much greater understanding of Iran and its culture from my PM "chats" to Katayoun. And maybe I can add even more to this still very small base by reading this book.
This book however adds another layer...the story of an Iranian family moving to the USA. It is a really delightful story that I enjoyed greatly. In it is a rich tapestry of Iranian life, food, culture and family values.
I enjoyed so much that it is unfair to single out just one story. But I liked the wedding story..."we invited 140 people. 163 accepted; 181 showed up." And the description of the sofreh, a traditional part of the wedding ceremony.
I laughed at the children in the USA that asked the family about their camels and then realised my own ignorance when beach holidays and tunnels through mountains were mentioned as being part of Iranian life and engineering.
Twenty five years or so ago I had some friends who did the overland trip to Europe. They country they enjoyed most? Iran. Marvellous hospitable people they said. It is time that this perception returned and we all realised that a bad regime does not mean bad people. (I do realise that this could well apply to other countries too)
And finally Katayoun to whom I will post this book tomorrow (it's gone) will be greatly amused that the iranian post office gets a mention in the book. The Iranian post office blokes are a great source material for several of Katayoun's forum posts!
Let's hope that Iranian PO can combine with the Australian post office to get this book to her.
I intend to continue my education about Iran. Thanks for the suggestions about other books. I am happy if you PM me with more.
And finally thanks to the ring/ray organisers and the readers before me. It is one of the great joys of bookcrossing that we can read and discuss books like this. I doubt that I would have picked this book up otherwise.
newk the journal's on it's way, hee hee hee, sorry couldn't help it, you live in a most beautiful world (they call it country to fool us, HUH!)and so we on this other planet have the right to tease you and be evil whenever we're able to. the cards and brochure is just great, it says "a place like nowhere else on earth" yup it look like it, beautiful and there are too many smiling people about.... a-o-e thoughts :) .... thanks alot.
so that said, the book was lovely. funny yes and also so filled with love. mrs. dumas' love for her family and her father just shined through the book and i think that's what really touched me.
also please remember that books are one person's view of the country, depending on the experiences of her/him and also the person's own culture and characteristics. go with a friend to a vacation, come back and compare notes, you'd see so many differences, the books are also written by people, with their own issues and agendas, don't judge a whole country and culture by someone's book.
and ooooooooooooh all the good stuff written by mrs dumas (even the hidden ones) about iranians are TOTALLY true, REALLY :)
well i haven't slept all night and so i tend to talk a bit, so thanks alot kristamd for the book, i had the most enjoyable time and anyone of you who is intrigued and wanna come and take a look, please remember that you can count on me to help and also you can stay at my place in tehran. also if you want anything from here just pm. and newk so when are you coming and seeing for yourself?
Well, I did like it, it was funny and witty, and having been an exotic foreigner myself I did identify with quite a lot (only I'm not asked about camels but polar bears - but less and less so, and actually most people abroad find it hard to believe that actual brown bears roam the Finnish forests). And living with a Frenchman I can justify that the French are not only adored in America, it goes for most countries, maybe especially Russia - I haven't taken him to England though, I don't know if that could be the exception.
I found the morality of the book sometimes a bit too easy though, I know it is not easy to be critical of the country you have chosen to live in without seeming ungrateful, but the "land of opportunity" mentality was sometimes a bit too obvious. Well, Ms.Dumas doesn't just shower praise over her new homeland either, which made the book an enjoyable experience.
I'd just like to see something similar about the Iraqi or Arab culture in general - being an Iraqian immigrant probably isn't too rosy at the moment.
I'll pass the book along to Candy.
I sent the book today to quizgirl.
Thanks to kristamd for this bookray.
Posting off to bookczuk on Monday.
"Oh look! We got one from England!" (That was her, not me- she's started keeping track of where things come from. I imagine that she has a map with little pins in it representing the originating places of mail she has carried to the bookczuk household.) (Did I ever mention to you I have a vivid imagination?)
So, hello to all you old friends of Funny in Farsi and to anyone who I've corresponded with courtsey of bookcrossing (to date, that's about 8 of you on this list). I am sending you a postcard from Charleston- well, really from Folly Beach, where I spent the day. That is the famous Morris Island light in the background- Which completely stands in the inlet between Morris and Folly islands.
1) I heard about this book via an author interview on NPR (National Public Radio) when it forst came out, but was too cheap to spend the $23 for the hardback.
2) Quizgirl sent the most amasing postcard of Derbyshire Well Dressings,, which I have since looked up and found a website explanation. Newk has inspired me to put an html link in my journal entry, which hopefully I did successfully, but won't know for sure until I click "submit journal entry" and go back to check. The picture here is one of those really fascinating well dressings. Thanks, quizgirl!
Things I enjoyed? The evident love and humor that pervades this family, the descriptions of traditions and foods, the opportunity to look at America through different eyes. I found myself telling my fifteen year old son about "Fritzy DumbAss" and we both really could relate- given the last name we have. Z in a name really throws people off; take my word on that. (My favorite massacare of our name "Romanczuk" was "Romannawhiskey". Makes one pause and wonder.) I also told him the story of her aunt who didn't go to college, but figured out how to cure the chickens that were dying. I told my mother (both her parents immigrated in the early 1900s) some of the stories involving thick accents and the fractured English. (One of my Grandmother's famous sayings was when she said in anger "In hell mit you!".
Anyhow, I'm gonna post a picture of the Statue of Liberty and Ellis Island, lend the book for today to bumma, and then pass it on tomorrow. I have KarenZero's address.
Thanks all for the wonderful glimpse into another family's life.
Both my parents were immigrants. I didn't have sense enough to ask them much about their youth and experiences here and in the old country. The stories I remember are gentle, sweet stories that could have happened anywhere. Now my parents, aunts, uncles,and siblings are gone and there is no one to ask. I recently read "The World of our Mothers" which moved me very much and gave me a hint of what my parents might have gone thru. You young people, get the older folk to tell of the "good, old days" while you can.
I enjoyed "Funny in farsi" very much because I know only one Iranian and he doesn't talk about Iran at all. This gave me an imae of one family, living here in the USA and in Iran. I'm glad to be reminded that there are people all over the world having the same kind of lives and expectations.
Off in the mail tomorrow to KarenZero.
I will probably breeze through this one, and it will be off to the next reader!
Thank you very much for sharing the book!
CAUGHT IN BROOKLYN NY USA
It will be off to the next reader as soon as I get her address...
thanks for sharing the book!!
Released today for Saturday delivery (according to the USPS!). Thanks again for sharing the book - I thoroughly enjoyed it!
I love the idea that a six-year-old Iranian girl would consider America to be the land of Barbie clothes.
Delightful. I think my favorite parts were the earthquake and the beauty contest. Thanks for sharing this wonderful book--I probably would never have heard of it if it wasn't for BookCrossing.
Released 19 yrs ago (10/20/2004 UTC) at Controlled Release in Controlled Release, A Bookcrossing member -- Controlled Releases
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Sent today via first class mail. Should arrive in 3 to 4 days. Delivery Confirmation number is 0304 1070 0001 5977 4097 . Check www.usps.com for updates.
Looking forward to reading it and moving it along.
Thanks to all before me!
Appreciated Firoozeh's great sense of humor and ability to write humorously - yet also maintain a balance of the serious: the chapter about her dad's love of ham, concluding with real wisdom.
Sending to PokPok!
Newk (and others), since you asked for similar subject matter, I would VERY highly recommend reading "Tales of Two Cities: A persian memoir" by Abbas Milani. It's on my bookshelf. I rated it a 9 star, and liked it much more than "Reading Lolita in Tehran.
PokPok
I really liked this book. I gave it 8 stars only b/c ultimately it's a light read--I tend to reserve the top 2 stars for heavier topic books. I'm going to pop on her website and wish her well.
I PMed the next person in line, but haven't heard from them. I'll send this out as soon as I can.
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Mailing as soon as I get an address...
Firstly it is *just great* to see a book travelling so far through so many people. Well done all.
Secondly I enjoyed your review pok pok.
Bye all from sunny Adelaide.
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PokPok here pushing in...
I finally got an address from rhythmbiscuit, but it missed the mailing I did last week. With the holidays, it might be a little bit before I can mail it, but it will be done as soon as possible. If there are any questions, feel free to PM me... Thanks everyone, and happy holidays.
I look forward to reading this book, and I will journal again when I have.
I will mail this book tomorrow to airyaa in Iran.
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I will mail this book to airyaa.
Thanks rhythmbiscuit for sending it and kristamd for the ray. :)
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(April 5 05)
Yes, I admit it was funny but hey... she lived in Iran yearS ago... so lots of things have changed. And as she said herself, don't judge a nation by the act of few people. :)
It's packed and ready to go and visit Singapore.
Released 19 yrs ago (4/5/2005 UTC) at another bx'er in Bookray, Controlled Release Singapore
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Update: 16 April 2005
This book is a breeze to read! Enjoyed the stories and the father of the author is especially delightful. I'm glad to have a chance to get a glimpse into the life of an Iranian family.
Update: 18 April 2005
Mailed this off to msordonez today via air. Enjoy!
Updating 5.30.05
Just updating that this book is still in good hands. The "other book" is really long, but I'm finishing it soon. I haven't forgotten about this one. :) Thanks for your patience.
I'm very excited to be participating in this long-standing bookray. I wish this little book a long and happy journey.
I found many things in Funny in Farsi about Iranian-Americans that were *very* familiar to me, particularly the parts about tons of people (particularly relatives) always visiting and arriving to overflow parties.
Here's my favorite line from the book (about the author's wedding): "We invited 140 people, 163 accepted; 181 showed up." :-)
This book is light, easy-to-read, and very entertaining. The author has a way with words that make her wry sentences make you want to burst into laughter. Unfortunately for my husband, I was reading this book on a car trip, and my outbursts of laughter annoyed him. To resolve that, I read some chapters to him out loud.
Thanks, kristamd and florafloraflora, for sharing this delightful book with me. I enjoyed it immensely.
Today Funny in Farsi is off in the mail to lilysmom in Washington state.
ETA: 11/4/2009 - This book is #18 on Bookcrossing's 100 Most Travelled Books list.
Released 18 yrs ago (9/23/2005 UTC) at US Mail in -- Mail or by hand-ring, RABCK, meetings, Washington USA
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I am mailing this book off to the next person in the bookray-Lobodyke in Bardstown KY. Enjoy! and stay in touch.
Loved this little book. Don't have anything to add that hasn't already been said. Glad I had it along for the airplane rides over the holidays.
Will send along when I get the next address.
This is the lovely memoir of an Iranian immigrant growing up in the United States. Although it is her particular story, it is universal. Thanks for sharing!
This is the lovely memoir of an Iranian immigrant growing up in the United States. Although it is her particular story, it is universal. Thanks for sharing!
Released 18 yrs ago (1/12/2006 UTC) at US Postal Service in Chicago, Illinois -- Controlled Releases
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Dospescados was MIA, so this book was mailed to India today. Enjoy!
I'm part persian and so it was even more exciting for me to read about a culture that very nearly was part of mine..(thats a long story....)
I loved the bit about the wedding...and the F-word!hahaha....still cant stop laughing when I think about it.
Oh I could go on..but work calls...
Have PM'd Liz for her address....
Released 18 yrs ago (2/12/2006 UTC) at mail in By mail, A Bookring -- Controlled Releases
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This book has been delightful! I'm glad it stopped over in India for a bit..its now on its way to the UK .
Safe travels little book! and hope you enjoy it Lyzzybee.
Thank you Kristamd for starting this ring..it was really lovely!
As to the book - well, I really enjoyed it. Wish it had been longer and a little less disjointed - she mentions that she started writing "stories" in the final chapter, which I guess explains that aspect. I've read quite a lot of "immigrant experience" books, fiction and non-fiction, and many share aspects - the parents' accents, trying to fit into two cultures, etc. I've not read one about an Iranian family before - it's very interesting to see all the similarities, and then also to see her love of her individual family shine through.
A good book which would have been better if longer - and who can complain about a review like that! Also very interesting to read of the other readers' experiences in their own lives and with friends from different nations. My point to add to this - I found out I know more about Islam and Hinduism than Judaism when my Jewish bf managed to fool me good and proper by telling me a big whopper about his birth faith - I'm so dashed liberal that I believed it and respected it without wondering if it was true or looking behind the facade! Is this just as bad as thinking everyone from a hot country has a pet camel??! [how did I type that wrong the first time? Doh!]
I have DotDot's address and will send the book on (airmail - don't wanna lose it!) tomorrow or Thursday.
Thanks for adding me to the ring, and thanks gussy916 for sending it all that way!
Released 18 yrs ago (3/1/2006 UTC) at
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Posting to Dotdot on Wednesday.
Thanks to kristamd for letting me join in this bookray and LuzzyBee for sending the book to me. I found out about this book when I was browsing BC bookshelves. So I should thank BookCrossing, too.
Hollydolly wanted to change places with littledragon. Book starts it's journey to UK tomorrow.
June 15/06
I just loved this book.I read it rather slower than usual as I was really enjoying it.
On it's way to next BCer today
I will pass it on as soon as I get IslayGirls address. And thanks to all who have been before me, I would never have found this book if it wasn't for you.
As Charlenemartel (Canada) does not want to be on the bookray anymore, I have sent a PM to musume (Ukraine) to ask for her mailing address.
I am delighted to find that Iranian, like Chinese, has eight words for cousin (though it appears Chinese still wins the contest for the variety ncle and aunts), and that the Iranian New Year celebration is quite similar to a Chinese one. (And we wonder at Americans' hassle of buying and returning gifts when crisp new bills work so much better.) It was also interesting to read her father's comment on eating ham. (okay, I know this is just one Iranian...)
Farewell little book, continue on your fabulous journey!
Oh! What's funny, is that I am currently reading Reading Lolita in Tehran. Just an odd coincidence that both books are about Iran! Maybe I am supposed to be learning more about Iran or what? :)
Ok now to my completely unprofessional, laid back review:
I loved Firoozeh's easy manner of writing, very laid back and kind of soft like butter (I know that sounds weird, but that just is how it felt!) :P
For me the book was VERY hard to get into because I am not really a short-story type of girl. I like novels and this was pretty disjointed, she went back and forth in time a lot it seemed and I think it would have been better if she kept the stories more together. While this is considered a memoir, I wouldn't really call it a memoir more like a few funny stories from her life.
I think the author does have a tremendous talent and she would do really well if she would take the current book and use it as an outline to write one that has more depth and detail. That is mainly why I gave the book a 7, it is a good book but it was just like skipping the surface of the water and never really looking underneath to find all the living things. There were a few poignant moments but I don't think this is a book that is really going to 'stick' with me.
I don't usually laugh out loud with books (even funny ones) but the chapter about her uncle trying to lose weight just cracked me up! Especially the part about him wearing the so-called space suit!
I feel fortunate to be able to read a book that has been passed from so many hands into mine; I am still fairly new to BookCrossing and I love reading all the journal entries.
I'll be contacting the next reader shortly and sending it on its way! Thanks everyone for sending it on so it could get to me!
-April
All around there are books sipping cool drinks under shady palms while other books participate in a wide variety of beach sports. There is plenty of sand, surf and sun here for all of the lost and wayward books to enjoy.
It is hoped that very soon a new journal entry will come to rescue this book from the island and send it back out into the BookCrossing world so that it may continue on its journey. It is hoped that the new journal entry will tell all the interested parties where this book has been this long time and where it will be traveling to next.
I loved how food found its way into almost every story, sort of a timeline of where they were in the assimilation process. As a person from an ethincially food obsessed family, I completely relate. Uncle Nematollah and his various weight loss outfits and contraptions were wonderful, and the humor and honesty in the book made me wish--like other journalers--that it was longer.
I finished it today and have mailed it off to missprisy. Thank you to everyone for sharing and passing it along. Kristamd has asked me to remove the written list in the front as it needed some changes, but it was so cool so see everyone listed and where they live that I am going to send it to Kristamd as a momento of all travels to date.
I just looked on amazon.com, Firoozeh Dumas has a second book due out in May 2008 called "Laughing Without an Accent: Adventures of an Iranian American, at Home and Abroad" Hope to catch everyone on a ring with that book next.
Release #67 for Guinaveve's Keep Them Moving 2007 Challenge.
Released 16 yrs ago (11/24/2007 UTC) at By Mail in Mail, Bookring -- Controlled Releases
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Mailed to musume